Hey Boss: You Are Wasting My Time

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It took Bill Gates around 16 hours every day just to ensure his company was a success. Or are you just holding back because you're scared? Part of me knows that deep down, you figured me out early on.

I lost everything and was homeless by age 20. I say this as consolation for you. But despite how old you are, imagine yourself as a child who wishes to explore an interest they love.

If You're Not Completely Into Me, Stop Wasting My Time

Dating can be hard, especially because so much of it, despite all of our effort and most optimistic energy, turns out to be a giant waste of time. Well, even the wastes aren't entirely useless: Even when relationships don't work out, you can be fulfilled by them for having had interesting experiences and learning things about yourself, other people, and what you do and don't want from a relationship. All of that is important, and we should value the experiences that give us that information, even if those experiences involve having nothing to talk about with someone who smells bad and makes racist jokes. Or just that they're utterly boring, you have nothing in common, and you can't wait for the date to be over so you can hang out with your friends. That is when dating can truly turn into a huge waste of time for you and everyone else involved. It's generally pretty easy to know when you're not wasting your time: When you've got butterflies in anticipation you wasted my time seeing someone, and when you see them it's wonderful and awesome and everyone is throwing their heads back laughing and you feel like you're being treated well, listened to, and respected. Feeling happy is never a waste of time. Sometimes though, it can be more difficult to tell if you are wasting your time. When you're dating, you often find yourself making excuses like, Maybe our next date will be better, or I'm taking my time deciding, or It's not like we said we were official. All those can be legitimate too—sometimes first dates are awful and second dates are wonderful. Sometimes it takes a while to really open up to someone, and sometimes the exclusivity discussion really hasn't occurred because you're genuinely not at that place yet. But sometimes all these excuses are merely placeholders for you wasted my time your relationship with someone. Sometimes you're just dating for what it is, a bit of fun, and you're perfectly comfortable with it being short term. But when you're not even thinking about the future in a when am I going to see them next weekend. You should always be able to see some sort of future with the person you're dating, even if it is only a few days into the future. You only hang out with them as a last option If you find yourself on dates because you're looking for something to do and all your friends are busy, then you're wasting your time. They invented Netflix binge watching specifically so you wouldn't have to go out on lackluster dates to pass the time. Granted, there's a lot to be said for dating around. Spending time with multiple people in the same calendar month isn't, on its own, a sign that you aren't legitimately interested in any of them. But if you've been seeing someone for a while, and you're still actively seeking out other suitors while dating them, it's probably a sign that person isn't for you, and that you'd be happier elsewhere, so don't waste your time seeing that person when it could be better spent on the prowl. They're seeing other people On the other hand, if you're totally into someone but they wont commit to you exclusively and keep seeing other people, then they're a waste of your time. You should really only give your precious love to people who are willing to give it back to you on terms that satisfy you both. One person having their cake and eating it too never works out for the best. Think about it like this: they're not willing to give up their time to contact you, so therefore they're probably a big fat waste of your time. They don't ever prioritize you Not responding to calls or texts is one thing, because as I mentioned sometimes there's a legitimate excuse. But that behavior paired with always being too busy to make plans with you is a sure fire sign they're worried they're wasting precious time with you that could be better spent doing other things. You should always be with someone who wants to be with you. You should be in someone's top three priorities work, significant other, family, in whatever order is most pressing at any given timebecause everything else on the list isn't a priority at all, it's just an option—Don't be someone's option. You're not interested in introducing them to your friends Sure, you want to get a little one-on-one time under your belt before bringing any new person around your friends and family. But if someone is such a snoozer or so embarrassing or so insignificant to you that you don't ever find yourself wanting to bring them around your friends then you're one hundred percent certainly wasting your time. You're not really serious about someone you don't want to introduce to your friends, and if they're not good enough for your friends to even have one or two drinks with on a night out, they're certainly not worth you spending your valuable time with. They make you feel less than worthy If anyone's treatment of you makes you feel consistently bad you wasted my time able to differentiate from say, natural and healthy disagreements as opposed to emotional manipulation or plain, downright meannessthen they're you wasted my time hot bag of poop you should discard of immediately. Dating should make you feel predominantly good, and if someone makes you feel predominantly bad, that's the clearest sign for you to move on.

Quit Drugs or Alcohol - This has nothing to do with morals and everything to do with momentum, drugs and alcohol kill productive momentum and will keep you trapped in the same mindset that got you into this mess. All these things are predetermined by a higher power. Not everyone can take a magical wand or pray and expect to live the next day with 100% responsibility of creating that day. They think this is something to do with sharing, telling the world what they had for breakfast. What happened and why did you change your mind? Every wrong turn led me to where I am now. Therefore, use the opportunity to take a class at a community college. I would spend my days shuffling from one to the next. You should always be with someone who wants to be with you. What are you doing when you lose track of time? Make it a point to learn one new thing every 7 days. I believe that people often delude themselves in playing an instrument rather than trying to understand music.